1. Be confident
It’s the sexiest thing any woman can do to turn on her man – take control and be sure about what you want and how you want it done.
2. Enjoy each other’s bodies
Try some of our simple Kama Sutra positions for this one. Give each other compliments, pay special attention to a person’s less favourite bits, make them feel desired and sexy. Body confidence is sexual gold!
3. Talk. One of the best sex tips we can recommend is to tell your partner what you’re enjoying and why, even what could be done to make the sex better; faster slower etc. The sure-fire way to better sex time and time again!
4. Engage in foreplay
It’s easy to forget that foreplay is all part of your sex life. Make sure you have enough foreplay with your partner until you’re both ready for intercourse. Prolong it by putting your clothes on, go out for a drink or a meal. Keep the evening going on as long as you can until you have to run home for the most intense sex ever! See our fun foreplay tips for some ideas.
5. Surprise your partner
Put on some sexy lingerie one evening after work and wait for him. Don’t let him touch you, dominate and lead him to the bedroom.
6. Drink coffee
Research has indicated that a couple of cups of coffee could well boost the female libido. Even if that’s not 100% guaranteed, the caffeine will improve your concentration – very important if you’re getting hot and steamy in the bedroom.
7. Turn off the TV
You may love watching what Rita and Norris are up to in Corrie, but it’s a bit of a passion killer. Hit the off button and pay attention to each other.
8. Do a strip-tease
It doesn’t have to look professional, as long as you move seductively in front of him and slowly take off your clothes. Don’t allow him to touch either – this will turn him on even more.
9. Choose the right music
Having the right tunes playing in the background can improve your bedroom experience. The right rhythm will make your lovemaking far more enjoyable. Try Marvin Gaye’s Sexual Healing for starters.
10. Ice ice baby
If you’re performing oral sex on your fella, try popping an ice cube in your mouth halfway through – the sensation as it goes from warm to cold will drive him wild.